We can easliy fall into the trap of telling oursleves of what we should be doing or who we should be. Might it be better to listen out for who we are and what we want to do, and go from there?
SHOULD – ‘to express a duty, obligation, or likelihood.’
The Oxford English Dictionary
SHOULD – ‘an ugly word, not to be used against myself or anyone else.’
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